Normally, you have to go to a meeting about mediation (called a MIAM) with a the other parent before you can apply for a court order.
But you don't need to attend one if:
- there's been domestic abuse
- there are child protection concerns
- you're applying for a consent order
- you're making an urgent application in an emergency
You need to explain your reason to the court and may have to provide evidence. See Valid reasons not to attend a MIAM (GOV.UK) for more information.